Lights out Alice!
The saying, " Being in a relationship will force you to introspect and ask the hard questions on your quirks and ill-behaviour patterns", is pretty apt. As a person who regularly isolates and does not engage with people, it is only expected that after a while my ability to spot the error in my ways reduces. It is as simple as becoming accustomed to one's behaviour and a testament to a human's ability to adapt, although in this case it has a detrimental effect.
Therefore, regardless of how much I loathe being in constant communication with people who are not super duper insanely close with me, it does help in making me understand where I am wrong.
Newsflash, I suck in a lot of places. The biggest one that was brought up today was how there is a differential standard that I draw up when it comes to making jokes. When I make a joke using somebody's past data that they shared with me, that is fine by me and I expect them to be understanding about it and take it in their stride, but when they do the same, I get immediately "pissed off" about it and demand that they stop it immediately and refrain from using the same in the future.
That's pretty messed up.
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